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There are probably thousands of answers. Here I name one of the thousand. This one is a secret. Everyone stare at it, but they did not know it is the answer they are looking for. Every woman know it is their perfume, their long eye lashes, the bush on their faces, their eyebrows, their curvaceous […]
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Why some marriage last longer than the others? Many newly webbed couples describe their attractions to each other as body chemistry. When people married, do they mix into one body forever, just like the Oxygen and hydrogen stick to each other and become a droplet of water? No, the magical ceremony of webbing is far
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There are many reasons, here I just mention a few very common ones.
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Eastern perspectives of depression Depression is a mental status. It carries a function: survive adversity. It is a mental status in which a person can rest and restore the energy, so to recovery; or go deeper: Pause, reflection, examinate the course, reset, and redirected, or even go to a deeper level: not only examine the
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The poison deeply hidden in video games. There are hundreds or thousands of research articles on the negative effect of violent video games on their users. They focus on the theme: violence. But I have not found one that recognizes the negative effect of nor violent video games. Here, I am going to reveal the
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The importance of recreational skills in our mental health After years of practice, I found out that those patients who have a gambling addiction, video game addiction, those who are suffering from psychosis, and, to a lesser extent, patients with depression and anxiety all lack recreational skills. Those who are anxious say: I don’t have
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Honesty and anxiety We have less to be anxious if we are more honest. Being more honest does not eliminate all your anxiety, but it would eliminate one source of your anxiety. Anxiety is like a river; many streams run into it. One of the streams that run into the river of anxiety is dishonesty.
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How to interact with my significant others who take a break from addiction? (Recently completed an inpatient treatment program or in therapy.) A lot of people whose spouses have a break from addiction right after the treatment hold a fear and have a pessimistic expectation of the sobriety of their loved ones. They probably think
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The behavior and feeling of lacking confidence arise when one believes he receives more attention, respect, prestige, praise, status, or position, than he deserves, or an expectation he could not fulfill. Let us look at this example: when the actors and actresses go up the stage to receive their Amy awards. Many of them look
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How can I stop my child from lying? Many of my patients ask me for advice on stopping their children from lying. I quickly modified their request to “help them lie less.” It is supposed to be very simple. First: Tell them stop lying. If that doesn’t work: punish them by withdrawing privileges, such as
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